As a Medium, I like to consider myself a guest at other peoples family reunions. In fact there are some families I have done Seances for so often, I probably could attend their family reunions…as long as brought Grandma with me. The Dead have a much easier time watching over the loved ones they have left behind, as their living family members are like candles drawing them home. Watching is much easier for the Dead then making direct connection. In this way a Medium is often required, for a Medium is more like a Lighthouse drawing them close and shining light on the situation. Often when working with people, passing messages from their Beloved Dead I find myself describing simple things that are happening in the lives of the living. This is a common way for Spirits to show their loved ones that they are watching over them and know what is happening in their lives. These are often the stories that touch me the most, for they truly shows the guardianship loved ones who have crossed over hold for us.
One evening while doing a Seance for a group of people the husband of one of the guest came through. He first began telling me about himself-how he died, things he loved to do, how he had met his wife. His wife who was still living and present at the Seance began crying as he described their life together. He then began to talk about how she was living her life and changes she was making in their home. I asked her if she had recently painted her bedroom & if it was now purple? Furthermore he was showing me curtains or drapes hanging all over the room, which I thought was a bit strange. She began to laugh and said that she had indeed painted her bedroom purple and that she could not stand how large and empty the bedroom felt without him…so she had hung sheer curtains around the bedroom to make it appear smaller.
Throughout the years of working with Spirit, I have experienced this over and over again. Spirits sharing with me changes happening in the life of the ones they love who are still living. They are watching, they are looking out for us and they are listening. The problem seems to be with the ability to communicate directly to the Living. They are able to watch those they love through the candlelight our souls provide for them. If you are missing someone who has crossed over into Spirit, talk to them, share away…they are listening! Thanks for listening folks.